Works great. Make sure to double check size
I bought the large but i wish I had bought the XL, my hips are a 40 and I thought i'd be okay, but it's a bit too tight. Works, but I wouldn't wear it all day. It's sturdy enough built that I think an XL would still hold everything in place. I don't regret buying it though, the material is comfortable, and washable.
This is my first harness and I am loving it! Soft, comfortable, and very secure. Never had issues holding everything in place, although it's sometimes tricky to keep our larger bullet vibe tucked into its frontal slot (which would be solved if we ever took the time to set up properly before hand...). So comfy and natural that it's a lot of fun to wear out under my regular clothes. My girlfriend swoons when she sees me in it but I tend to be self conscious about my hips hanging over the tight band, a bigger size may have solved that but it also may have reduced toy stability (I have 34 inch hips and bought the medium). The tomboi is sturdy and soft, machine washable (hang dry), and fun in the shower! Very pleased, would happily recommend.
The only discreet underwear harness that works in every way. No airport alarms going off from metal like other harnesses. Grateful it doesn't feel girly & looks like just a pair of underwear minus the branding which on this model is least visible.
Comfortable for light or heavy action. Sizing is important as the waist has a wide band and while the medium fits great for action, the band folds over and not perfect for resting in. Medium fits up to 37in, and I'm just on 37 in. Now I'm just waiting for the large to come back in stock to add to our toy box.