It's not heavy, and very flimsy ... floppy. Lol ...
I prefer the silicone NY Pierre packer!!!

I got the smaller size first and then went up to the heavy when I replaced the small one. Unfortunately the larger one has now done the same thing my last one did, I think it's just the way DJ makes their packers. It appears there is a "base" that runs along the back and is connected into the shaft. The base begins to separate by peeling gently along the rim of the balls and then gets worse until the plastic is barely hanging on. Essentially, this and the smaller packer is 2 pieces molded together (the back, interior of balls, interior of shaft), which might come apart from each other. Its not that the balls themself entirely come off, it's that there's a front and back to the packer. To be honest, they are not kidding about how "heavy" this one is. When the back separated it made it much lighter and also kinda doubles as a stroker since it has a suction-y hole where the interior of the shaft used to be. Before they both broke, I did clean and powder them but I didn't use a strap or anything, just was putting them in the pouch of boxer briefs which worked fine and was snug. I think the way it folds down maybe aggravated the seam and caused it to come apart. So probably if you use a harness it might help. The employees were very helpful though and let me replace the first one. The new one I don't mind that the back came off, since it's lighter now. Just letting you know if you get this there's a non zero chance it will split in two. Other positives, this thing swings around and is very squishy so you have a lot of maneuverability with it.

I love to use this hefty packer around the house since it makes me less conscious when using a smaller packer outside. Anyway, when are we gonna get an upper lip? All these no-lip packers keep spilling from the top and it’s annoying.

I'm thrilled with this packer. It's what I wanted and the only issue I ran into is the harness I purchased separately didn't hold him as securely as I wanted. If you're getting this packer I recommend a harness with an O ring to keep the base of the shift flush against your body.

I'm thrilled with this packer. It's what I wanted and the only issue I ran into is the harness I purchased separately didn't hold him as securely as I wanted. If you're getting this packer I recommend a harness with an O ring to keep the base of the shift flush against your body.