Packer Gear Boxer Brief Harness
Great product for nestling your packer. I'm usually a M/L, but the waistband was a little tight. It's still wearable though, and if used for pack-and-play you would want it to be a bit tight. It will likely only fit the packer that it was made to pair with as the harness hole is fairly small. I do think the hole is primarily for gender euphoria reasons and less for pack-and-play because of the size and texture of the packer.
They hold things secure and are comfortable. I get really warm wearing them so i do not prefer them.
I'm like the goldilocks of harnesses, they've all kind of been not-quite-right (straps are too loose; straps cut into my sides; too many straps and velcro bits to feel sexy) but I LOVE these ones.
Simple, comfy and discreet under pants so I can wear them out and then, when things get sexy, I'm already set to pop in a toy - no fussing with straps!
This is the first time I've bought a harness. It looked and felt great. I moved around a fair bit -- standing/walking, sitting, and lying down -- and my slender Vixen Spur dildo stayed where I wanted it. Based on how well it held the dildo in place, I am confident that it would be effective for partnered play as well.
I bought the Large/XL. I have 39" hips, and the fit on first use is indeed snug, but very comfortable. It feels snug as in secure, rather than snug as in too tight!
The washing instructions on the tag: hand-wash cold, hang to dry. No ironing, no bleaching, and no dry cleaning.