This is the first time I've bought a harness. It looked and felt great. I moved around a fair bit -- standing/walking, sitting, and lying down -- and my slender Vixen Spur dildo stayed where I wanted it. Based on how well it held the dildo in place, I am confident that it would be effective for partnered play as well.
I bought the Large/XL. I have 39" hips, and the fit on first use is indeed snug, but very comfortable. It feels snug as in secure, rather than snug as in too tight!
The washing instructions on the tag: hand-wash cold, hang to dry. No ironing, no bleaching, and no dry cleaning.
